don't be scared!

When your with him the thing you need to do is through on a doesn,t matter what film..then slouch next to him closley. The thing I find which works the most is to get his attention, by crossing your legs an using your foot to touch his leg, use your hand to rest on his thy (major turn on) the main thing I do is fidget! Ahaha ino it sounds like you will annoy them, but it doesn,t bother them, cus this way you can get eye contact an the question "are you comfortable?" Just say yes! Cus then he cannot stop lookin at you :D