Look at all these tips some saying one thing some saying the other all dependes on what kind of guy YOU want some thing like "be yourself" or "wear what you fell comoftable in" are for eveything but other wise just go with the flow if it doesn't work try again with sombody else mabey. I'm sure there some site that tells you EXACTLY what do for the EXACTLY perfect guy for you but seriouly what fun is that?