I think it would have been easier to get over, if my partner of seven years had of confessed his affairs to me. Instead I found out, slowly over a two week period that he had cheated three times (that I know of).

There have been many lies, and there are many lies I am realizing everyday.

We did decide to try to work it out. It's so hard. I cry often. I have not been blamed by him yet, but I am sure it is coming. I am so disappointed in him. I mistakenly thought he was different then other men. I thought he would always be there for me.

My question is, can someone who truly loves you cheat?

I don't offer advice, but to the cheaters out there, I want you to know that the dispair and pain you have caused your partner is heartless.