Some Fears are Real

Your partner may be pushing you for a decision on a commitment, and you´re just not sure it´s right. Be sure you´re being realistic - read my other tips on that subject. But if you ARE being realistic - if he always screams at you, if she always calls you a jerk or stupid - don´t give in just because your partner is pushing. YOU deserve to be treated well. There is only one you in the world, and for every person there are other people who really accept and appreciate the kinds of talents you have.

It´s not enough for someone to ´be able to deal with´ the way you are. This isn´t love. You should be with someone who *appreciates* and *accepts* the way you are. You don´t want to be ´tolerated´. You want and deserve to be understood.