Try to Compromise

Intimacy is one of the key points of conflict in relationships. If one person wants a lot, and the other doesn´t, then both can constantly chafe at this ´irritation´.

Sit down and discuss exactly what each of you enjoys and does not enjoy about the situation. Is there something you *both* enjoy that you could do a lot of, and then take turns with the other things? You might find compromise is closer than you though.