Fantasy and Reality

We get a lot of our ideas about love from movies and novels. When we watch the western hero shooting 200 bad guys in one minute, we say, "Itīs just a movie." When we see a perfect love scene, though, we say, "Why donīt I have that?"

Movies are constructed to be perfect. Real life isnīt quite like that. Figure out what traits are really important to you in a partner, and focus on those. Youīll probably be able to find them!