The first times

With all the hype about sex in the media, itīs not surprising that the first few times people have sex, they wonder if theyīre doing it "right". There *is* no right or wrong way. Sex is about enjoying your partner, and enjoying yourself. Ask your partner what he or she likes. This communication is very important in any sexual relationship, and itīs always good to start early. Every person is very, very different, so nobody assumes that you will "already know" how to please him or her. If the person does, he or she has some very mistaken views about what sex is about!

Take your time, and get to know how your partner reacts to different things. The experimentation is what is fun!