Pornography can be both a good and bad thing in a relationship - it all depends on how its used. If a couple uses pornography to enhance their sex life, this can be a great sexual aid.

However, if one partner looks at pornography a lot on his or her own, it can lead that partner to view people as sexual objects, and as most partners donīt look like models, it can make that partner less and less happy with the "reality" they live with.

If you and your partner have an issue with pornography, sit down and talk about it, and listen to each others views. Work out a solution that you can both live with.