Be cautious with tickling

While tickling may seem like a fun way to break the ice, with many it´s an unpleasant loss of control. To find out, wait until you´re both relaxed and try tickling your partner just a little. See if the response is delighted glee or a "stop please stop!" If you´re partner´s not into tickling, he or she might not think to try it on you. Be sure to hint if you enjoy tickles.