How to Break Up
Breaking up is never easy. There is alwasy two sides to each story. I read several of the tips, because I just broke up with my boyfriend via email and breaking up via email or messenger is not being COWARD. This person is doing the best that they can do at the time and may have valid reasons for doing so. I just broke up via email and certainly don't consider myself a COWARD. I did this to take care of myself because he has show signs of rage. I owned the part I played in the relationship and sent him this email:
Again, I wish I could sit across the table from you and tell you this, but this is the best I can do.
I feel that neither one of us is happy. I know, I’m not and I feel your not.
I have made several errors in this relationship. Let me explain.
The first one is using the words “No matter what.” I said those words with good intentions, however I was not able to live up to the integrity behind them and I now know just how much power I carry with my words and hope that I will do better in the future.
Second, I also said that I was willing to work on our relationship and that the work would be tough and most people wouldn’t want to do it and it is indeed too difficult for me to do.
We, I used the words “I love you”, without really knowing what that means. Love, true love means that both partners hold each other in warm personal regard most of the time. True love, also carries with it respect for the other person. When I told you “I loved you”, I used those words too loosely, then the new wore off. When we got serious about our relationship, it wasn’t fun anymore and relationships should be fun. I just don’t have these feelings anymore. Relationships are work and I know that, but when you have to work just to like each other something is wrong.
Our relationship has given me several blessings – I now value my worth and I know I’m here to serve God. I thank you and God for teaching me these things.
I hope you will be able to accept my apology, if not today, maybe one day.
I also, realize you are going to go through a lot of emotions again, and again for my part in that I deeply apologize