How to go a little farther

After u kiss play all the kissing games then u feel like u shold take the next step but your not sure the want to. There are ways of noing ask them derectly(that takes a lot of balls) or get a friend to do it by three waying you speacial someone with a friend but pretend your not there and let them do all the talking. then thats the olnly way you will know for sure
Ps GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!