time, independence and your self

-Give it time, if it's meant to be you'll be back together
-Give subtle messages that you can live without your ex,
-Work on how you can improve your own life

-time heals relationships
-independence makes you better, no one likes a very needy person who whines all the time
-Working on your own life can make you very interesting, and can get your mind of your ex

I know it's hard to pretend to be this... cold but it's better than phoning your ex over and over again trying to talk to him/her, or showing her that he/she's your one and only world,

i still think alot about my ex, and i can't accept the fact that it's over, but i would rather try to move on, she might move on with me