...smoking and reading

I heard on a radio talk show that men should beware of women who smoke and read alot. Something about smoking increases the sex drive and reading means the woman is intellectual, likes fantasy and romance.

I smoke and I read regularly. My guy is not very intellectual and never reads anything. He thinks my mind is the greatest thing on Earth and he thinks our conversations are amazing. I on the other hand think he is boring unimaginative, and completely dependent on me to keep in in tune with current events. I think "our" conversations are me teaching him and are one sided. I can honestly say I'll cheat on him. I want him because he is a nice guy and generally a good man...but can I get some good conversation please.