playing around is only good sometimes&advice

playing around always helps,
but there is a thing as going too far
always let your lover know how you are,
don't joke about loving them or anything serious or hurtful they can take it the wrong way, so just communicate and have the best of fun,

not everyone wants sex,
some people just want to be held for awhile.

learn who your special one really is,
then you will know exacly what they want.