Unheathy types of love

Mania: intensely jealous, possessive, in need of constant reassurance of partnerīs love. Projects desired qualities on partner
Epithumia: Desire that found its fulfillment in sexual love. Quick to arouse, quick to fade. No commitment involved
Ludos: a collector of loves, similar to a gigolo

If your love relationship resembles any of these three, it is destructive and you should get out.