Is it impossible??

Hey girls and guys...i am a 30 year old female...i know that what you ALL said is let him see you like you were when you first met...but WHAT if its long distance??? we broke up after 6 months (we saw each other everyday back then)...he thinks i messed up cos i didn't return the i love you words when he i am back in a different country...we broke up cos i hurt him with something i said (not serious though!) and he immediately broke up..thats when i told him that i love him and miss him...cos i was then far away and i knew i was right....he was still considering whether we should go back together...i stopped texting and calling...and gave him space..he went for a holiday for 5 weeks...i waited so maybe when he comes back he would come back...instead he found someone else..! now what?? i cannot make him see me! he jumped to another relationship before he sorted things out with me..When i told him how hurt i was and that i was waiting for him all the time.....he said that we had already broken up and he never said i should is that???...Yet after we broke up he still texted and kept me hoping...even during his holiday...then he stopped and i know hurts...he was always concerned WHY i didn't return the words when he expressed himself...but i wasn't ready! i wanted that whatever i say will be not what i feel then, but what i feel forever! I need more time...Help..