trying to keep cool during an arguement

Let Your Partner Do All The Yelling Or Whatever It Is He Does. After He's Done Ask Him What Could You Or Should You Have Done To Not Make That Mistake. Ask Him Is There Time To Change It. Keep A Cool,calm,voice. Besides You're A Girl, And Girls Don't Yell!! After Awhile Let Him Calm Down And Talk To Him About What His Yelling Have Done To You. Whether It Scared You Or Intimidated You. Talk To Him About How His Reactions Made You React. Then Let Him Know That You Can Make Things Different.