My boyfriend of a year now cheated on me when he was off doing PDT training with a girl he had known for about 3 weeks..he wasnt calling me much so I knew something was wrong..I knew he had cheated on just get a feeling and you he got back and I had said something about it but he blew it off..the next night he came over again...and I said "Just tell me that you cheated on cant hide it anymore." He kept telling me he loved me..and finally told me he we talked about it and I told him I couldnt deal with it and I was moving on..we didnt last..the next day we made up and have been close...its been about a month now and it still bothers me but we still talk about it..just talk to your partner and you might be surprised..things could work out. =)