Play boy/girl Bunnies

Have you ever been in a monogamous relationship for "ages" and when you finally break up get angry because of all the other "opportunity" you passed up.
I see a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that is something you build on that someday developes into an engagement and wedding bells. There's a lot of "unsuitable" people out there so the only way you're gonna find "the one" is to filter out the garbage. So... dont be afraid to have other male or female "friends".
Being a shift worker or the excuse that you are a shift worker makes this task a whole lot easier trying to find an excuse why you can't go to the movies on tuesday night.