Want ex back

ive been with my bf for a yr,weve been broken up for like 4 months and i know that i still have feelings for him. about a week ago he called me after i stoped calling him to apologize cuz he would be a bitch over the phone. later that night he came to my house. but i think i made a mistake cuz i asked him back and he said no,i wasnt thinking. if you ever see them be sure to not be so romantic with them,talk with them like nothin happend but let them know that they are still in ur heart.