dont start arguments

i went out with a girl "J" for only about 6 days. then after our first date she dumped me. it hurt so bad because she said she was just kiddin about liking me and it was a dare from her friend then she said she liked my friend who liked her but then when she dumped me he didnt like her because he thought shed do that to him. then i started an argument with her and told everyone about it. now her and all of her friends all hate me. you dont ever want to start pointless arguments then drink dry gin and tell everyone girls are so damn confusin sometimes they mean it and later when they hate you they were just kiddin