b domineering n then submissive

be domineering n then be submissive. as in say "lets go for a walk" n if she says "umm... i don't wanna" then let her know it's alright, u r not hurt n u respect her feelings. she's definitely gonna think u r sweet n girls r attracted 2 sweet guys. but do not give her the feeling u don't care or she's gonna think of u as a casanova