You only cheat yourself

I have cheated and lied to my true love, and was found out.
She was ripped apart and emotionally devasted as all she wanted to do was give her heart to me. She (obviously) does not want to be anywhere close to me and has killed all methodsa to contact her.

My advice (before cheating)is communicate, communicate and communicate, let her know how you feel, talk through all your thoughts.

If you have cheated, respect your partners wishes - give them the space; give the time to heal, but most of all be honest with yourself about why you did it and what you lost.