Long Distance and Internet :
Meeting for the First Time :
Avoid Expectations & Talk
Of course, since you,re meeting this man/woman in person, you have some expectations, but try to keep it to what you know. Expecting a basic picture of what they look like, a general idea of how you both interact from afar, and what you know about their psychology up to this point are all positive things to look forward to, but try not to build up and idealize this person until you expect to meet a superhero.
Approach the meet-up like you are seeing someone completely new, and have something planned in which you can focus on who you are with instead of the activity. Don,t go for silent activities, such as seeing a movie or eating in a high-scale resteraunt' try activities which will prompt talking, such as walking in parks, eating in a casual resteraunt, and looking around entertaining stores (ex. joke shop, bookstore, sex shop). Make sure you do something to reacquaint you with the person, and absolutely make certain both of you are as comfortable as possible.
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