All About Intimacy :
The First Time :
Make sure that the room is barley lit, maybe by a candle or even just a TV on at the other side of the room, just so you can see her face and the soft glow of her lips. Also have a good movie in.. one that a girl would like (the notebook works really well.. trust me, I've done this before) and put your arm around her. With your free hand grab her hand and gently stroke it as an attempt to give her that warm fuzzy feeling, if successful she will scoot closer or get as close as possible to you, then look deep into her eyes and slowly move your head closer to hers, she will do the same and meet you there, be careful and be soft and gentle, kiss her once or twice while you are there (about 1 or 2 seconds each). Then hold her close in your arms, don't just pull away and go do something else because that will ruin the moment, and something about that moment plays a role in how the relationship turns out later on.
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