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That Empty Feeling
Ok, so we start dating and everything was great. We never got in any fights, he was sweet, we both gave and took equally. We had the most fun doing nothing. Then BAM! Out of nowhere, he breaks up with me, because he isn't happy. There were no signs of this. I was devestated. Cried and begged for understanding and the why's, and the what did I do's, or what can I do better's. Then, three weeks later, he comes back to me and said I was right that he was scared, and wanted to date me again. So, I took him back.
Again, everything was good. Better even. This time he told me he loved me. Then BAM! That's right. Again, he broke up with me. A second time. And this time, it hit me hard. Before him, I had been really guarded and never let anyone in, then the moment I do, it gets ripped out from under me. He told me that he thought that he loved me, but gradually didn't anymore. That he wasn't happy, again. I didn't understand it, there were no signs. It was sudden and unexpected both times.
Again, I cried, asked the questions and wanting/needed to understand why.
He stuck to his guns this time. I'm still broken hearted, but I'm perservering.
It took me a minute to realize that he's a two-faced asshole. That if he really cared, he wouldn't have done what he did. That I wouldn't have been put through it a second time. Yes, partly my fault. But, both times it was out of the blue.
I realize that I will be better off without him. That even though he still tells me I'm his friend and he cares, he's just telling me what I want to hear. I don't need that in my life, and I will not put up with it. I'm better than that, and so is everyone else that goes through this.
Yes, it's hard. Yes, it hurts. But, honestly. It makes me stronger. It will make the one that's worth it seem like a godsend.
Advice? Know that you're better than crying all the time and thinking about how things could be different. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. Hard to grasp, I know. But, it's the truth. And, once you get to where I am, knowing that you're better off without all the bullshit, you'll know it. Might take a while, but that realization always comes. You will start laughing again, looking at other guys without feeling guilty, not everything will remind you of him, your friends will be your comfort once more, and you will be able to go more and more days without him crossing your mind, until eventually, their just a mere and distant memory. It will happen sooner than you think. But, give yourself time. Don't beg for them to come back, it will only make you feel stupid in the long run. NO man is worth begging, EVER!
So, although you may have that empty feeling from time to time...just remember that you are worth more than you give yourself credit for. Way more. It's his loss, and somebody else will come along and realize that you are the cream of the crop, and you them.
Good luck to all my broken-hearted ladies, I sympathize and understand. Much love!
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