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It's not all your fault!!
my boyfriend of about one year had broken up with me, blaming me for ruining our relationship. The worst part was, I believed him. However, the more I thought about it, the more i realized that we were both equally at fault for the slump in our relationship, and that breaking up with me over a little rough patch was extremely childish of him. I am a gutsy girl, so I went with my instincts and I called him on it. I told him that he should have talked to me if something was wrong, and that it was unfair of him to let me continue on with the relationship without telling me that something was bothering him. The worst stab came when I told him 'You know what?! Men in mature relationships talk to their women about their problems and work it out. Boys run away. I thought I was with man but I guess I was wrong.' At this point, he confessed that he had handled the situation incorrectly, and that he did still have feelings for me, but that he wasn't going to pick up everything and start being my boyfriend again. So we agreed to talk alot more, and be more open with eachother. More importantly, we agreed to start casually dating, and see where it goes. I tried playing hard to get, I tried explaining to him how I felt, but all I had to do was stand up for myself, and I recieved the second chance I prayed for!