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A Love Quote
Love doesn't sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all of the time, made new. --Ursula K. LeGuin
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Understand your own Weaknesses
Most people have built in weaknesses when it comes to seeking partners. It might be that you´re drawn to the ´wild boy´ that you hope to tame, or that you´re attracted to the ´flirtatious girl´ that you´ll be the one she finally settles down with.
If your aim is to have a soulmate, don´t go into a relationship trying to change your partner. You want to find someone who *is* great for you, not someone who *will* be great for you once you convince him/her to change a lot. Make a list of the qualities your soulmate will have, and make sure those are what you´re paying attention to.