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Deep and Shallow
Sometimes fights in relationships occur because one partner feels the other one is too īshallowī or isnīt īdeepī enough in the relationship. What do these mean? Both involve the amount of concern and attention one partner feels for the other. A few times this might be valid - one partner might be fully in love with the other while the other partner just sort of likes the first. More often, though, itīs that one partner expects X and Y as a sign of love, while the other partner does Z and feels that shows his life fully. Sit down and talk about expectations. What do *think* means the person loves you? Is it daily hugs? Lots of flowers? Snuggling? Phone calls? Now talk about how *you* show your love. Maybe your partner is completely missing those little things you do. If you learn more about each otherīs expectations and style, you might find that you are both deeply in love with each other, and just didnīt realize how you were showing it.