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Love doesn't sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all of the time, made new. --Ursula K. LeGuin
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Do you keep track of things you do for your partner, and then wait to see if your partner properly pays you back? Relationships shouldn´t be about you and your partner owing each other, or about one doing exactly the same amount as the other. It should be about two strong, self-sufficient people who gladly do things for each other because they want to.
If you´ve fallen into the habit of counting things you do for your partner, and feel shortchanged, it might be time to sit down and talk about how to get back to a more open, sharing relationship.