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Sometimes its best to move on
me and my ex went out for 7months and i luved him so much, but he smoked weed and always wanted to hang out with his friends to smoke, even when i was with him. I broke up with him becuz he kept 'forgetting' to see me and blowing me off to hang out with his friends. After the words left my mouth i knew i made a mistake because i felt my heart break. you may think this is an exagerattion but its not i literrally felt a pain in my chest. I told him i was sorry that i loved him that i didnt mean it and all he said was' THEN WHY DID YOU?' He didnt even ask me to reconsider he was just like whatever. I pursued him and i tried to win his love back. He thought i was obsessed when i told him i hated him i cried, becuz i just wanted to be with him. I felt complete with him near. after a week of not talking to him after what happened he called me. I had been ignoring him and avoiding him at all costs. He called b/c he missed ME and wanted to ME to call him. but you see that was the problem he always wanted me to call him, he rarely called me. I started talking to him again but once again he started to ignore my calls, i would write him letters telling him i still loved him and i felt incomplete without him. I dont even know why i love him. he doesnt even know me, he flirts with other girls in front of me and he plays with my heart. ive cried so many times because of him, but i still love him. but what im trying to say is that even though you may love someone you may just have to let go and forget about that love... I should take my own advice and i think thats what ill do. even though he ignores me, flirts with other girls, chose his friends and weed over me i still love him, but i guess my love just wasnt good enough. Its time for me to give up and move on and sometimes thats the best choice. From a girl who tried with all her heart and failed,