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Me and ny soul mate broke up about 1 mth ago. We both had made plans for our future, and I believed that we would make it. At first, I cried to him and expressed my love for him because I was hurt. I didn't know how else to handle what I was feeling. As time went on, I realized how to deal with my feelings, and realized that he was hurting too. I knew that I could no longer express my feelings to him and cry to him. Men want strong woman. Woman who can 'go on' and 'not call'. So.....after wks of isolation, my phone started ringing. I was getting 'urgent' text msg's. I wpould never respond right away, but ag=fter the 6th time, I would casually respond. When I would see him out, my heart was breaking. But I always smiled and decided that it was better to put on a brave face, then to let the world know that I was suffering. Currently...we are still apart, but smowley I feel things changing, and becoming healthier. Not to say that we are ever going to be back together, but In the end, I love him. I would rather know that whenever I see him, we can always be cool! I know that he will date other woman and I will date other men. But he will never forget me, and I know that because he often calls me after he has gone out or he has been drinking. Dont cave in no matter what! Dont call, and when he calls, let him wait. Dont use his friends or anyone else to get to him. Be confident and beautiful...and show the world that you are amazing inside and out.If you follow these steps, you will make it with or without him. Plus....if he is not willing to fight for you back or express the true meaning of what really went wrong....do you really want that person back???