Enter the information below to forward this great tip to a friend!
Worst thing she could possibly do to me...
I just found out two days ago that a few months after we started dating, while we were pretty long-distance, my girlfriend was cheating on me. This tore me apart -- even though it was a long time ago, over a year, it feels very fresh because I just now found out about it. I was tempted to walk away, but when she and I talked about it, my feelings changed. See, she knows she screwed up bad, and she knows she cut me deep. She pretty much hates herself at the moment because of it. Our relationship now is a lot better than it was at the time; more solid. She swears that she would never do anything like that now, and I believe her. I love her very much, and so I'm staying with her, though the next few weeks might not be easy. I do know this: when times were bad before, I stayed with her because I thought she was faithful to me. Now, knowing that there was a time when she wasn't, I will be much more open to looking for someone better if we're on the rocks. I have not told her this because it sounds like a threat, but that's the way it is. If you have cheated, be aware that your partner might act the way I do, and make sure to keep the relationship running smoothly or else you may lose them forever.