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A Love Quote
Love feels no burden, regards not labors, strives toward more than it attains, argues not of impossibility, since it believes that it may and can do all things.--Thomas à Kempis
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Be Content and Steady
Most breakups occur because two people who DID get along are now unhappy together. So your girl has a mental image of you being an unhappy person to be with. You need to change that mental image. Whenever you are near her, show her that you are content, steady, trustworthy. Do not yell at her, hound her, mope. She doesn't want to be around a moper! She wants to be happy. That's why you guys broke up - because you both wanted to be happy. Show her that you ARE happy and therefore if she came back to you, that she could be happy with you.
You want to show her that you are a happy presence that she can come and hang out with, and share in that happiness.