I just want to know if he likes me or not because it's been something that's confusing me for months!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok, there is this guy that i REALLY like...i've liked him for about 6 months or so. it's really hard for me because i dont get to see him during the summer, and im afraid that if he DID have feelings for me they will go away. but anyways, there are some signs that i THINK say he likes me. He makes eye contact with me, lingers when im in the hallway, looks at me, he's given me 2 hugs ( 1 on his own will, one someone told him to hug me and he did)..he also jokes around with me. Also one time i was going to watch him play his sport, and i never told him i was going to watch, but someone found out and told him i guess, because i was talking to him and he told me he wasnt playing that night, and he was really nice, like me might have wanted me to watch him. I just want to have a better opinion on if he likes me or not because it's been something that's confusing me for months! thanks SO much!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Wait a bit
Hey, If I were you I would wait a little longer before you tell him or at least wait until you know for sure that he likes you. The same thing happened to me last year with my crush J*. Believe it or not I had liked for exactly 156 days in counting. He was the sweetest guy that I had ever known until he found out that I liked him. Then he and all of his friends started being really mean to me. He spent over 6 months ignoring me and just now he's starting to be nice again. Just last week he saved me from getting hit in the head with a rock. And he got hit instead. Basically what I'm trying to say is that if your going to tell him make sure that he won't break your heart like J* did to me. Good luck!!! - K*
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