Does a "badboy" and a "good girl" ever work?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Does a "badboy" and a "good girl" ever work? Or does it just end with the "good girl" more hurt and guarded than before? What happens if they were perfect for eachother but their prefrences in fun just happen to differ is it even worth it? Is it even worth the risk?- help thanks
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
No bad boys
George is right about good girls trying to reform bad boys. One more thing about good girls and badboys... Good girls get attracted to bad boys because their lives are diffrent. Good girls live in a safe environment, while bad boys faces the danger... sometimes a good girl likes danger, however don't know how 2 start facing it... and usually this bad boy triggers it...However often when good girls turn bad... they tend to do it to the max.. They become VERY BAD.. that the bad boy cannot handle them.
Another deal about bad boys, if they come to a good girl... they dont' want them to turn VERY bad.. maybe a lil hint of naughtyness but not completely bad. They came to you for a reason, cuz they want somebody to chill with not to blaze pot with.... they can blaze pot with their buddies but chilling with the good girl is diffrent..
And about taking the risk.. well if the boy does come to you, and u feel lhis sincer take the risk... but don't take him to oo serious cuz ur gonna b the one hurt in the end of it all because bad boy don't hurt emotionaly...at least thats very rare. and DON"T change just for him, be yourself.. be tru to yourself.
and regarding fun.. if the boy really likes the good girl he'll do what the girl does.. Take it from me. My boy's bad and i was the good girl. He spends time with me tho its not his thing, but he still haves fun. We didn't last long becuse i got out of controlled.. i Changed.. i turned to somebody just like him.... i started slangin.. when all he wants somebody to hang with.
Hope that helps...
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