I had this feeling that maybe there could be someone else
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
When I first met this guy we spent basically every weekend together but him being new to the city he wanted to meet new friends. Well six months later we are still dating but now we get together on the weekends but on like a saturday afternoon or sunday. He recently told me that i needed to let him know in advance if i wanted to something so he didn't make other plans, well i try and every time i get the same thing well i'm going to my friends for a bbq, or my friends and i are going to the bar to have a few drinks. I'm confronted him about it that is he ashamed of me or something and that i don't want to be pushed to the side anymore. I had this feeling that maybe there could be someone else cause he does have accounts on websites and stuff but i don't know, did he just lose interest in me? Am I just being selfish cause i want to spend time with my boyfriend or could there be a possiblity "friends" is not plural?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Blind fold him
Taking the advice from the website you linked, I spoke with my boyfriend and he was up for rekindling. So next weekend we have reserved a room at a nice hotel and hopefully what i have planned works. I'm taking your advice about the writing with marker but giving it a little twist instead of writing something about each other I thought it would be fun to write want we want each to do. Then do the Baby oil massage, plus the whip cream grabbed my attention. I did also buy the sexiest lingerie and plan on blind folding him, so we will see what happens.
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