I followed your advice and I really feel I've gotten closer to this girl.
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
A while ago I posted a question here under the headline "She spends her time with me, does she like me?" or something along those lines. Anyway, I followed your advice and I really feel I've gotten closer to this girl. In school we always hang out, she even asked me to one of her classes, which I did. The thing is I really feel that she's sending mixed messages. For example, during math, she always peeks and me, looking away when i look at her. Often when we're in group just hanging out during the breaks she seems to almost avoid my eyes, except when im not looking that is.
Anyway, I've been realy hestitant to ask her out since she rejected another guy in class not long ago. I finally made myself ask her out to watch a movie this week and she immediatly said she'd love to.
What im unsure of is if she want just want to go like friends or if she might something more? we've never meet done anything out of school earlier. And how should I approach her? Like should I put my arm around her shoulders or anything like that?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Sounds like you are doing all the right things to me and it's working!! She IS interested in you.When she peeks at you like that, she is flirting with you! Ask her out! I agree with romanceclass.com in that putting your arm around her would be tacky,but,holding hands is good. Take her out and show her a good time!! Have Fun!!!!
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