he wants to take things slow because he is looking for someone he can be great friends with first
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
Its been a year since my divorce, was married for 12 years and have recenty started dating. I met a man online and we talked for several weeks online and via the phone. We went on a first date and talked for hours. After he called and we went on a second date. The second date was great too...both ended with a nice hug...no kiss. He called after and wants to go out again and we get along great...is is normal for man not give a little kiss by date 3. We have talked a lot and he has said he wants to take things slow because he is looking for someone he can be great friends with first. It's driving me nuts because I really like him but common a little kiss would not hurt. Confused as to why but intrigued by him because he has a great personality and we really do click. I am just being impatient..should I be greatful he is going slow?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Try to get to know him
I am going through the exact same thing but it has been 10 months !!!! I have learned from him to not push it. It has not been easy but it is the first time I have ever had a guy friend. We are both mature. He has hugged me a couple of times and that was great. Try to have patience and get to know him . B
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