I Can't Trust my Girl Because of my Ex



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I've been with her for a month and a half.I have not been dating for about 3 years. My previous ex was a psycho. I got cheated few times, and the best part someone told me that i'm the third boyfried in a row and that sucks. brokedown coz i loved her so much. I nearly to commit suicide becoz i thought i was the end of the world for me. I managed to get advise and help from my friends and finally we broke off.

because of that , i lost trust. and now, i dont kinda trust her although she's telling the truth. It's not fair for her. i hate myself of having these feelings. she is not like my ex.it's just me having this insecure of getting hurt again. i do not know how to not being so jealous and to trust her. i dont wanna lose her becoz i love her so much. is it because of the phobia factor of getting the second time haunts me? and how to not get so jealous because i know its not fair for her.please help me. thanks




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Should've moved on


get a life. This problem is minor.

You should've just dumped the first girl straight away and moved on. This kind of s*** happens to everyone at least once, but we all seem to manage.

sorry but that's the way it is.

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