me and my boyfriend fight all the time
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hey. i have a question. me and my boyfriend fight all the time. like everyday nd i end up hurt in the end. i am a very sensitive person. i was at this web site and i read the other advice you gave the other people who have problems like mine. and i tried it. but something is different about him. he was insulting me. it made me so sad. i dont know how to get him to show me love like he used to? how do u get him to fall back in love? i want him to want me more than anything. but instead he always tells me i can do better and to leave him. but i always say back, "no, i love you and i will never ever leave, we were made for each other" i just think he is in doubt with me, he is giving up so easily. before he told me that we fight cause we love each other. now he changes his mind and said that wat we have is not wat he wants. he has these changes of mind. and i just wanna stop it all and make him want me. i am tired of crying all the time. how do i fix these problems? please help
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Confront situations head on
I don't understand the advice of "just tell him he's right and talk about it later." No, that is not the way the world works! We live in the present, and we must confront situations head on. First and foremost, talking about issues is key, but it seems to me that your boyfriend does not care about you since he makes you feel depressed and inferior all of the time. If he does not treat you in a way that makes you feel happy and special, then he does not deserve you. And remember, life is too short to be unhappy!
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