I like this guy but he has a girlfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I met this guy a couple weeks ago (we were making a music video, we modeled together as a couple in the video)..he's sooo cute..well, my friend ( the one that got him as my model) told me that he already got a gf...i was soo disappointed; but however, she also said that she don't think that they would last long because everyone can see that they're not connected...while we were making the video, I found out that we got lots of things in common--and somehow, i feel that he's interested in me too.....and I think he's a perfect match for me....he's a nice guy and doesn't at all seem like a player....my friend told me that all his friend knew that he doesn't have feelings for his gf anymore, just that he doesn't wanna break her heart.
Well, all my friends said that we would make a perfect couple...I need an advice to what i should do---I really want him to become my bf....(I accidently left my stuff in his car, and haven't gotten it back since) ....I want to approach him in a natural way, not in a way that he might think that i do it on purpose.....i dun know how I fall for him, maybe it's because of his personality and his look. Well, i'm a very attractive girl...i know that there are lots of guys out there that would want me....but...i need an advice to make him approach me also without feeling bad because of his(unloved) gf...
Anywayz, i'm about to turn 18 and he just turned 19...:)...........thankz you
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I like him a lot
Okay, so Im dealing with the same problem!!
My whole sophmore year I always thought this guy was hott, but we didn't know eachother so I just kept it as one of those crushes to where when you see him your like ahhh. and weve become pretty good friends now, but he has a 5 month girlfriend and shes his first love. but like hes in a band n she never supports him with that stuff and shes so diffrent from him, ive been at every show, always in the front and he always thanks me so much for coming. we have so much in common and love the same music and she makes fun of his style. i like him alot.
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