I just want to know whats going on so this worry is gone
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok i'm not a jealous guy. My girlfriend goes out with her friends and parties and it doesn't bother me. I know she loves me and I know i'm the one she wants to be with. We've been together for 8 months and there is no question that we will be together for a long time. The thing is she gets calls and messages from guys wanting to know what shes doing that night and other things. At first i wasnt worried at all, because i know she is with me. But after a while it got old. It has made me wonder if she doesn't let guys she meets know she has a boyfriend. If she does let them know then why would they still call? The ex still calls her here and there but could care less about him, its the guys that call here and there that has put a lil worry in the back of my mind. Sorry this is kind of long but i just want to know is this something i need to work on and if so how. Or is this something i should talk to her about and see whats going on? I dont want to come at her and tell her how i feel about this because i dont want her thinking im the jealous guy. I just want to know whats going on so this worry is gone. Thanks.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
I'm in the same boat pal, what can we do? It's like, do I forget about all this nonsense or do I try harder to find out the truth? I'm at the point where I'm just going to act like I'm not curious or suspicious and wait til' I stumble upon one of her mistakes. I think you shouldn't let your worry be known, don't be obvious about your suspicion. Just wait for her to make a mistake or leave you solid evidence to bust her. If you know for certain, than do what you feel and get out while the gettin's good. I guess we'll both need some luck, here's to us bro, later
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