me and my boyfriend fight all the time
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hey. i have a question. me and my boyfriend fight all the time. like everyday nd i end up hurt in the end. i am a very sensitive person. i was at this web site and i read the other advice you gave the other people who have problems like mine. and i tried it. but something is different about him. he was insulting me. it made me so sad. i dont know how to get him to show me love like he used to? how do u get him to fall back in love? i want him to want me more than anything. but instead he always tells me i can do better and to leave him. but i always say back, "no, i love you and i will never ever leave, we were made for each other" i just think he is in doubt with me, he is giving up so easily. before he told me that we fight cause we love each other. now he changes his mind and said that wat we have is not wat he wants. he has these changes of mind. and i just wanna stop it all and make him want me. i am tired of crying all the time. how do i fix these problems? please help
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
You deserve respect
If your boyfriend is insulting you and making you cry all the time, then that is someone you don't want to be with anyway.
You deserve better than that.
I know you love him but it sounds to me like maybe he doesn't care whether you two stay together or not. Sometimes it's hard to see beyond the fogginess that love fills our eyes with. Don't settle for something that may not be the real thing.
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