I Want to Win Her Love
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
I love a girl from two years. She is my best friend and consider me as one. But she says that she is not interested in me to share her life. But I think I cant imagine my world without her. What should I do to win her love. I want to be everything for her.
Please advice me something that can make her mindset change.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
lot of fish in the sea
sometimes love seems to be a game where you and her are both the cat and the mice. but here the situation is different since uand her are bestfriends.
So what u need to do is one thing, when u r sure that she is the one perfect for u, away from all the imaginations, still need to know if she may ever love u.
now u two have a habit, u know each others 'by heart' let me say, and what u need to test is how she would react to ur absence.
when u r not there, what would she do ?
u need to show her that for once u r not by her side, and u cant be there for her, and that u like another girl and c wat she would say.. u need to keep on doing this untill u get a clear answer.
hope it works..
if not, there's lot of fish in the sea ;)..
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