She Has a Boyfriend - I Want to Date Her
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
i like and 'love' a girl but she already has a boyfriend.....i started being friends to her but she told me that she has a boyfriend...she knew that i have a likeness for her...but never said anything....i told her that i just wanna be friends with her...we are friends but we don't get time to meet each other...we chat a lot through cellphones i.e. sms....
i have taken her out for dinner once...and occasionally when we see each other, we talk but i get very nervous....how can i impress her...i know she likes me but as a friend but i love her..
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Just be there for her
This can be a very difficult situation. I myself have experienced such a thing. If you really 'love' her, just be there for her. She'll appreciate it. You don't want to step in the middle of her current relationship, as that would mean it would be possible for her to be with you and then like someone else, and you don't want that. If you really love her, just be her friend and let her make her own decisions. Wait it out, and keep your eyes open for other oppurtunities.
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