i truly care for her and i just want to know if she feels the same about me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok i am 15 and in highchool( grade 9) and its nearing the end of the year ...i really like this girl in grade 8 and she sais that she likes me alot also ...but ive been wondering if she really means it or is it just something thats shes telling me or does she really understand love ..i am awear that i myself dont fully understand love ..but im passed that point of just dating for fun really ...i truly care for her and i just want to know if she feels the same about me ...thx
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
becareful dude, Love is a big word and there are a lot of levels of love, just make sure that if you fall you fall with a rope around your legs. or brace yourself, because nobody likes a broken heart. Love if it is True it will only grow stronger, even with bumps along the road. the first normal level of love is caring for them. sticking up for them. If you want to know if she is telling the truth that she has feelings for you make sure she is not being sarcastic about it.watch the tone in her voice, see if you notice her looking at you sometimes, or if you are somewhere in the same room or are, if she goes up to you constantly then theres a good chance she likes you. but dont fal head over heels, just dip your toe in the water, to get the feel of it andwhe its safe( you might know) then jump in.(with a life vest) >>>.
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