I am 13 and i want to ask someone out but i dont know how

We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.

Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 13 and i want to ask someone out but i dont know how because i went to a catholic school and did not learn much about dating because we were punished if the administration found out we even like someone and they said that we had problems. They did this to the point were most guys became gay. I dont know what to say or what to do. I am in a new school now and some of the girls i like hang out with guys i fought with or are just nuetrall with me and either dont know me or dont like me or they are my friends ex. also music is very big in my school and i am a hardcore maggot(slipknot fan) and many girls dont like them or think im weird cuz i listen to them but im not gunna give up rocking for a girl

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
How to flirt

Dude like George says build up confidence by talking to other girls, and flirt with them, but dont always think that a girl likes you if they flirt with you because its hard to tell whether or not a girl likes you, they might be flirting because its in their nature and they like to make guys feel liked even though they might not really be liked. Its a game they play. If they do like you the will have more physical contact with you, like hitting you often or getting in you way, or maybe if you say ow if they playfully slap you,they might touch your face. then most likely they like you but dont jump to conclusions, and call her right away or something because you will scare her away, because she prob wants to go a little slow, take your time let the relationship build, first talk to her and tell her that u like her conversation and would like to call to have more conversations. ask her if she wants to hang out. be polite, and yet a little harsh once in a while but apologize, right after you say something kinda rude. and tell her the opposite( for example>>> if you say you look like you just woke up say (im kidding you look actuallly look like you just came from heaven, or say im kidding you look pretty attractive, and so forth... well if u need more email me at

The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Asking Someone Out
All Questions & Answers by Category
Most Recent 20 Questions

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.
Irish Wedding