He Slept with Me, He's Ignoring Me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I meet this guy and I really started to like him. Well we ended up sleeping together and after that everything kinda changed. We used to talk a lot and hang out now its barely. If I want to talk then i have to be the one to make contact. He never calls me unless i call first. I ask him if he likes me or what is goin on, he says he does and he really wants us to be friends, but what i don't understand is that lately if I ask if we can see each other he acts as if he is busy.
I don't know if i should believe him or just forget about him. i mean does he like me or not. If he doesn't why doesn't he just say so. Now he is mad at me because I told him I'm tired of him ignoring me. The problem is i can't just put him out my mind and move on. I keep thinkin about him. What do i do.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
I am in the same boat you are! I think if you really like him try to pursue him and try maybe to become friends and let him know how you feel. tell him you like him and want to be friends maybe he comes around. set yourself a time 1-3 weeks if he doesn't come around then move on, thats what I am doing right now! or maybe try not call him for at least a week no contact and see if he calls or misses you and then if he hasn't call then call him and just say whats new in your life and see how he reacts? but if he still at that time is not calling you or show you any effection or attention move on! my advice too read the book "HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" a great tool # 1 best seller.
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