its been a really long time since i've liked somebody
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
its been a really long time since i've liked somebody. It took me a long time to get over my last relationship just with everything that happend and how it ended and i took myself out of "the game" as people like to call it. But i forgot what those feelings felt like till recently. There is this guy in one of my classes and we've been friends all year and just casual flirting back and forth i guess you could say until he got a girlfriend. But that was awhile ago. Now were both single. And i found that we are flirting a lot more. And he always says "we should chill sometime" and asked me for my number. He's just a super nice guy and i really like him. But im to afraid to tell him this because although it seems like he feels the same way back what if he doesnt? I dont know what to do because he's always saying "when girls like me they never come out and tell me so thats why alot of the girls that like me never go out with me" or something along those lines. But he also said "you really have no idea buti am positive someone likes you but im not saying" Am i just completely blind or do i actually have a chance? But the only problem is he's a huge stoner. Thats his life outside of school. In school he's a great guy and we talk outside of school on msn nothing big. but i've had problems in the past with guys like that. Im not into that scene. I dont think its cool. so thats somehow affecting me in not telling him how i feel.
can you please help!!!
thanks so much!!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
this same thing happend to me.. i was with my boyfriend for 3 years and he got himself into the wrong shit. and then i found a new guy and as soon as i found out he was a stoner as you called him i just had to get away. guys won't change. unless you pretty much have him bxxxx whipped but how often does that happen? once a burnout always a burnout. find yourself someone better hun!!
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